Safety
Your Online Dating Safety Checklist
By Sarah Chen Sunday 15th February 2026 3 min read
Before the Date
Video chat first. Tell a friend where you're going. Research the venue. Arrange your own transport. Charge your phone fully.
During the Date
Meet in public. Watch your drink. Trust your gut. Don't feel obliged to stay if you're uncomfortable. Have an exit plan.
After the Date
Text your friend that you're safe. Block and report anyone who made you feel unsafe. Trust your instincts about whether to continue.
Red Flags to Watch For
Pressure to leave the venue. Excessive alcohol pushing. Boundary-ignoring behaviour. Anger at normal boundaries. Monitoring your phone.
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Sarah Chen
Sarah is WhichDating's lead app reviewer with 5 years of experience testing dating platforms.