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    Your Online Dating Safety Checklist

    By Sarah Chen Sunday 15th February 2026 3 min read

    Before the Date

    Video chat first. Tell a friend where you're going. Research the venue. Arrange your own transport. Charge your phone fully.

    During the Date

    Meet in public. Watch your drink. Trust your gut. Don't feel obliged to stay if you're uncomfortable. Have an exit plan.

    After the Date

    Text your friend that you're safe. Block and report anyone who made you feel unsafe. Trust your instincts about whether to continue.

    Red Flags to Watch For

    Pressure to leave the venue. Excessive alcohol pushing. Boundary-ignoring behaviour. Anger at normal boundaries. Monitoring your phone.

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    Sarah Chen

    Sarah is WhichDating's lead app reviewer with 5 years of experience testing dating platforms.